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Ms. Ruchel (ID: 7912)

Age: 47, Divorced, Yeshivish - Black Hat

Brooklyn, NY, USA

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PHYSICAL

Gender:	Female
Height:	5' 3"
Build:	Petite
Hair Color:	Auburn
Health:	Very good

CULTURAL

Country of birth:	Argentina Left at 6
Countries of citizenship:	Argentina, USA
Countries raised in:	USA
Origin:	Ashkenazi
Am I willing to travel to meet someone?	Maybe
Am I willing to relocate upon marriage?	No
Where I would like to live (in decreasing order of preference):	NY
Languages that I speak (in decreasing order of fluency):	English, Spanish, Yiddish, Hebrew
Hobbies / Interests (in decreasing order of importance):	Kiruv (I teach Yiddishkeit) Writing Music Making shidduchim Hashkafa other
Pets:
Do I drink?	Never
Do I smoke?	Never
Would I go out with someone who smokes significantly?	Unspecified

RELIGIOUS

Religious Affiliation:	Yeshivish - Black Hat
Torah observant since:	All my life
Torah institutions / programs attended:	BY of Balti and L.A; and Sara Schenirer Seminary, NY
Do I have Smicha?	N/A (woman)
If so, when was it obtained and who / where from?
How important is Judaism in my life?	Extremely
Am I a member of a synagogue?	Yes
How often do I attend synagogue?	Weekly
Am I Shomer Shabbos?	Yes
Do I keep Kosher?	Yes, all the time
Do I keep Cholov Yisroel?	Yes
Do I have a beard? (men)	N/A (woman)
Was my mother born Jewish?	Yes
If not, the details of her / my conversion:
Am I adopted?	No
Am I a Kohen?	N/A
My opinion on: Wife wearing pants:	Against
My opinion on: Wife covering her hair:	In favor
My opinion on: Husband having a beard:	In favor
My opinion on: TV in the home:	Flexible
My opinion on: Going to the movies:	Flexible
Other religious details / issues:

MARITAL / FAMILY

Marital Status:	Divorced
Since:	1981
If divorced, do I have a Get?	Yes
If so, from which Beis Din is the Get?	Debrezin
Do I have children?	No
Number of boys:	N/A (no children)
Number of girls:	N/A (no children)
Years in which the boys were born:
Years in which the girls were born:
Number of children who live with me:
Who has custody of the non-adult children?
Further explanation regarding custody:
Would I like to have children in a future marriage?	Yes

SECULAR EDUCATION

Secular education, highest level attained:	Some college
Fields studied past high school:	Seminary Psych, Socio.
Institutions attended past high school:	Sara Schenirer; LAVC
Degrees / Diplomas obtained:
Planned future studies:

EMPLOYMENT

Current occupation:	Counseling, Writer
In current occupation since:	2000
Current income level:	Unspecified
Brief work history:
Plans for any change of career:

PERSONALITY

Sense of humor:	Excellent
How organized?	Very Organized
More about personality / nature:

GENERAL

More about myself:	I am a very straightforward and open, communicative, astute, intelligent, warm, generous, deep, refined and classy, down-to-earth, easy-going, giving, affectionate, confident, understanding, openminded, emotional and sensitive, selective and tasteful woman. I consider myself worldy, on the ball, menchlich, not fachnyokt but frume and ehrlich, educated, an appreciator of style but not materialistic; and quite Ruchniusdik. I have an unmatched keen sense of perception, and many who come in contact with me walk away a little wiser. I also consider myself very passionate, mature, and knowledgeable about a healthy relationship and what’s important (I have given my counsel to many, privately as well as professionally.) I believe in open and constant communication, honesty and expressiveness, show of affection and emotionality; and in the depth and intensity of a relationship. I love poetry, sentimentality, romance, kiruv, music, passion, physicality, emotional expression, giving, maturity, openmindedness, total honesty, supportiveness etc. I give my man all.
Goals in life:
Special needs or preferences, if any:

LOOKING FOR

I am looking for someone between:

and

The kind of person that I am looking for:

He is menchlich, distinguished, confident, very open and communicative, attentive, on the ball, intelligently above average, somewhat cerebral, patient, mature, and generous...He is sensitive and warm, passionate and deep, openminded and expressive, in touch with his feelings and knows how to be himself. He’s torahdik, gemarah-versed with a seder, yet very worldy and in touch, very learned but not fafrumt; Ruchniusdik and caring. (Understands that Ben Adam L’chavero is important..And he chooses his own road, not paying too much attention to what others think.) He has great emotional Yishuv Hada-as (to match mine.) He’s classy, choosy, but not cocky; an appreciator of elegance and quality; and down to earth. He likes a woman who wants to be in touch and "connecting" always, and never grows sick of it...He prioritizes well, and thinks that the time spent with his spouse is the most important. He is a learner (of life,) and has learned from his past relationships...and, is always growing. He is romantic, sentimental, and protective..and knows what’s important.

The kind of person that I am definitely NOT looking for:

Shy, inhibited, introvert, jokester, never married.

The kind of relationship that I am looking for in a marriage:

Where there is constant and open communication. Because that is the only way to love, grow and give. I believe in priority-knowing, patient and understanding partners, whose most important and continuous goal is to have that close loving connection. Where there is continuous respect for one another as human beings, and as partners. Where there is patience and non-stop desire to want to know the other and to share absolutely everything. Where there is the continuous desire for depth, intensity, affection, closeness, and constant interest of the others feelings, opinions and thoughts (regardless of any undesirable feedback,) and the desire to give opinion and support to the other always, without the need or expectation of being asked.